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Child & Animal Law Offices is offering pro bono/reduced fee mediation services as a public service through the end of February only!
Mediation can happen once or over multiple sessions. I have found that oftentimes, at least one party is convinced that mediation will be a waste of time and money only to find afterward that it was actually a process worth having. In fact, and to their surprise, these same people frequently decide that an additional […]
Colorado Pet Mediation/Arbitration
Gabriela Sandoval is a Standard Member of the Mediation Association of Colorado (theMac). She is currently accepting new mediation clients and her practice focuses on animal and pet related disputes including pet custody, Landlord/tenant/HOA, dog bites, “viscious” animal allegations, injury or death of animals, alleged veterinary malpractice or negligence, consumer affairs and deceptive trade practice […]
Rants and Raves
RANTS: People walking around staring at their cell phones, completely unaware of the live people and action around them (myself included as I sit here blogging in the airport). Fast Food. Unnecessary C-Sections and medicated births. Formula. “Educational” Television Programming for kids. RAVES: Parents who limit their own “screen time” in front of their children. […]
Balancing Act: Working Parents
A good work/life balance is important for you and your children. Sometimes that is easier said than done! It is important to model responsibility, living within your family budget, making compromises when necessary and demonstrating a healthy work ethic. You want your children to demonstrate appropriate behaviors (safe/healthy limit testing/rebellion is natural), develop motivation to […]
Autism Spectrum Disorder
The number of kids diagnosed with Autism has been on the rise at a very high rate. If you are a parent going through a divorce or separation AND you have a child on the spectrum, I would guess your stress level is at an all time high. Know this: There is a light at […]
‘Tis The Season
The holidays are supposed to be a time with family and friends, for reflection and cheer. It’s a great opportunity to create new traditions or re-live your favorite ones. Don’t put your kids in the middle of your battle over where they are going to spend the holidays — it will likely leave an unintended […]
The CFI Process
Although all attorney Child & Family Investigators (CFIs) in the state of Colorado are bound by the same set of directives and standards, each has her own unique approach. I have worked with many families struggling with high-conflict relationships and other various issues. My goal as the CFI in your family law case is to […]
Nursing and Divorce or Separation
Many questions and fears may arise when a nursing mother is facing divorce or separation. She may ask – how can I nurse my baby if the father has parenting time? Is it dangerous for my baby to stop nursing? What do I do if I’m getting divorced and my baby is still breastfeeding? First, […]
How can a CFI help me?
Do you really want someone appointed by the judge in your divorce case to stick their nose in your family business? Your first response is most likely, “No”. However, a Child & Family Investigator (CFI) will put the focus back on your kids. And focusing on them is what is most important in the long […]
What is a CLR?
The Child’s Legal Representative (CLR) is an attorney in a domestic relations case, appointed to represent the child’s best interests (as opposed to the child’s wishes – although, as a rule – I think the child’s wishes should be expressed to the court unless there are special circumstances indicating otherwise). The CLR does not file […]
In Colorado, if you have kids and you’re involved in divorce or allocation of parental responsibilities (“APR”) litigation, you may need to consider whether a Child and Family Investigator (“CFI”) or Parental Responsibilities Evaluator (“PRE”) needs to be appointed in your case. You may also be faced with the fact that the appointment may happen […]
Try to settle if you can…
Even after you’ve become entangled in custody related litigation, you can discuss with your attorney (or if you’re pro se, with opposing counsel) the possibility of settlement as opposed to going to trial. If a CFI (Child and Family Investigator) is appointed in your case, the written report may be a good tool to use […]
High Conflict Divorce
The negative impact of high conflict divorce on children is real. It can be scary, stressful, confusing, frustrating and exhausting. It can lead to disruptions in comfort and routine, problems at school and create behavior changes and/or aggression and withdrawal. Such changes may lead to unstructured and unhealthy risk-taking behaviors. Children may likely suffer a […]